Before we began this new startup life we had sat down together and talked about it. And then we prayed about it. I think both individually and together, but I can’t say I was very fervent or faithful in praying about it. More than anything I think we were very practical in our thought process. We considered the risk with our finances, knew we had to budget better, and thought we had a good grasp on the time and emotions this new venture would involve. We thought this was a good next step to take and felt that this might be where God wanted us to be in this season for us.
Of course sometimes I daydream about making it big and selling the company for a bazillion bucks and sailing off into retirement in our late 30’s. But I am careful not to covet that and hope that I would not judge our success by the world’s standards of success but by God’s. I had prayed that God would just teach us many things about Him and about ourselves in this process. And He did not disappoint. There have been moments where we feel just utterly drained and many tiring arguments and conflicts between us and with others in these few short months. But He has been faithful and brought about reconciliation and forgiveness more times than I can count. There have been times where God has done really great things for the company that can only be attributed as a miracle from Him. And when time and energy are sometimes hard to come by we are challenged to serve the other more and understand the need for strong communication for fear of a slowly crumbling marriage. Our marriage has surprisingly been strengthened after starting this company, and after 10 years of marriage we are in a very content place.
Throughout this whole process God has made it so clear to me that He just wants to be with us and walk with us in this adventure. And I have come to realize that even if this company isn’t wildly successful or goes belly up next week it would not be considered a waste at all because God has been drawing me near to Him and has taught me and grown me in so many ways that I could not have imagined if we had not begun this startup.